A Moment to Remember (2004) + random reflections

A Moment to Remember
Damn Koreans really know how to make stories
I cried like three times. I had to pause the thing twice and collect myself.

 This just challenged my views of what I've been told what love is.

 Love and Life. Are they really just memories?

 Are we really just taking them on? experiencing.
Is love really just as good as the memories we make?
and reciprocity? Is love just as good as the love that we receive?

 The context of the film is that the girl has Alzheimer's disease.
A degradation of memories.

 A degradation of memories.
Why build all these amazing memories and experiences, when at the end it's just going to end up like dust?

 Maybe the point of love isn't the memories and the experiences?
If that's not it. then what is?
Is it the effect you give to the other person?
What if you're hurting the other person?

 The duality of life is that, pain and love go hand in hand. 
The other one affects the other.

 This is like saying, what's the point of love when at the end of everything it's just going to be pain?

 What's the point of love?
so you can have someone take care of you?
so you can share this lifetime with someone else?

 Why love another human being? When it's just going to be painful.
Then again, why not?

 That's an amazing capacity that you get to have.
to brave on, with the knowledge of pain at the end, and still carry on.

 That's a beautiful thing.

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