Sense and Sensibility (1811) | Jane Austen

TL;DR: Two sisters come of age. Elinor is serene. Marianne is more passionate. They meet two men who it appeared they will not marry, but eventually they end up marrying. One big story in the middle of what seemed like a suspense leads to the two sisters being happy with their marriages.
It is essentially a romance novel, it plays with a lot of relationships with the two sisters in the middle; the sisters and their mother, their cousins, their friends of friends and so on. All of which adds complexity or moves the story forward.


People have made arguments that part of increasing empathy, or creativity even is by reading or seeing something you don't usually see. Hence, the impetus to read Jane Austen. I had seen it endorsed by a couple people. And I thought that if I was to deviate from the normal books I read, might as well be a classic in its genre. To be honest, I thought this was going to be some kind of Twilight-y touchy-feel-y story. It's different. It's easy to empathize with the two sisters.


TIL:


Place value on virtue and character than on external trappings. 

You don't marry for money; or for selfish intent.

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